The primary purpose of this blog is for me to attract clients who have interests closely aligned with my own. You see, when I was brand-new to domination, I would take almost any session and try to make it work. Even though I didn't really enjoy extreme humiliation (and other things), I would give it a shot and inevitably deliver a less-than-ideal session.

However, I grew to realize that I was a much, much better dominatrix when I was doing things that I actually enjoyed. Yes, it seems simple, doesn't it? In retrospect, I can't believe that I didn't figure that out that sooner. But, I learned a valuable lesson, and now I put a great deal of effort into presenting a very accurate picture of what I do, and I frequently let people know (hopefully before we meet) if we just don't match.

But, it's more than simply comparing a list of interests. You have to spend some time considering what you really want. For instance, would you enjoy playing with a distant, aloof, stern dominatrix who never smiles, or would you rather play with a strict, but playful, sadistic, but sensual, dominatrix who occasionally laughs? (And, if you don't know which one of those _I_ am, you'd better do some more research!)

Because... when I stop having fun, then this becomes a job, not a release. I want to enjoy every session and never feel like I'm simply going through the motions.

So, your job is to figure out what you want and if we match (and, we are absolutely not a match if you want heavy humiliation and strap-on play, but are willing to do without just because you think I have an amazing ass). And, my job is to present myself as accurately and honestly as possible.

With all that in mind, I'm going to be changing the focus of this blog a bit. No, don't worry, I'll still post sexy pictures from time to time. But, I'm going to try to move away from advertising myself (although that tease and denial post sure did seem to be popular with everyone!), and move to a format where I write more about fun sessions (with permission from my playthings, of course), and delve further into the psychology of BDSM.